A few days ago a friend of mine told me about her friend who whined that she do not wish to end up like all those pathetic women. My friend asked her what are the criterias for being pathetic women. And here they are:
1. Over 35 years old
2. Never dated
3. Currently not dating
4. Still stay under the same roof with her parents

Wow! Those are sooo me!

I am going to kill myself thinking about the above while listening one of the songs from Bridget Jones's Diary: All BY MY Self


That was according to my friend's friend. We may goes to the same school, from the same parents, at the same age, but we are definetely see the same thing with different perspective.

If the above are the criteria of being pathetic women then I have another opionio.

Being pathetic is someone who has almost about everything but still not satisfy and still want more, more, more especially that belongs to other people.

Being pathetic is someone who has family but still feel alone and do not love them

Conclusion being pathetic is someone who have no idea how to be thankful for their life

Ehm, is that including me? ^________^

Anyway, perhaps that friend of my friend afraid of being lonely in the old age whereas her friends already spending time with their children and grand children. While she rotten away alone somewhere in the darkest place with nobody with her. Aside than the angel of death.

Yeah, come to think of is a pathetic life...

Credit card, debt collector...

A few years ago, one of our acquantaince tried to apply credit card to this bank and use our home address as her personal address. Well, you know how credit card will ask for your home address and also phone number at home. Plus, they will also ask someone not living in the same house with you to confirm that they know you.

Anyway, since this person never ask permission from my mother that she will use our home address to support her application well...when the people from the credit card company called us to Mom simply said that she knew the person. But, that person is not living here with us and after that the credit card application was rejected.

The problem is, once you let other people use your identity like home address or phone number and then they are having problem with the payment..., well you can be sure that everyone in that house will be terrorized by debt collector.

You will have to know that the bank will not remind you that your due date is near. They will however warn you when you have failed to pay after the due date. Soft warning at first, then escalate to even harder warning like saying dirty words or terrorizing all the people staying in the address given by the credit card user.

Why they have to be harsh, rude and menacing when collecting debts? Because these people usually work for agency hired by the credit card company to collect debts. The debt collector each was given target like how many they could collect money. Sure, sure... Having a target that you must achieve within month or perhaps weeks probably drive that person to be creative and use any kind of ways to ensure he or she manage to achieve the target.

Because I know several stories how people try to avoid payment. They either run, or their whole family covering up insist they have no idea where this person about, and any lies that they could come up with. The problem is, those debt collectors think that all people are the same. Nasty liars and refuse to take responsible after using credit card or borrowing money.

It is not a pleasant thing to get involved with people who have hobby to spend more that they can earn and just took off while leaving us to clear up the mess.

Then again, we could go public on newspaper it... Probably they will accuse us not telling the whole truth and just give them a bad name.

Perhaps we should just close all of our credit cards then...

Betweem trend and personal taste

I have to admit, I kinda like reading my friend's tweets... They often give me ideas about what to write on my blog.

One of them said about she pretend to watch Glee as it is one of the coolest tv show on earth. So she watch it simply to be in the trend. But after a while, she decided that she is not really into the show and back to watch CSI and 24...

Sometimes we get embarassed when our friends asked us about a new singer or popular tv show and we give them our blank stare... And then they laughed at us before finally sharing the information about the show... or that famous person...

Though actually we have to just follow all information about who, what, when, how and where ...some of us can't deny that when we are not interested then we just simply not into it. We may read, hear, watch, see about it but our brain is unable to process the information. We do not have desire other than being curious in the first place to find information about it. After that, we decide that is not our cup of tea and just drop it.

Of course, since we are interacting with other human being naturally we do feel the need to be in the crowds. Know what is in right now. Know what is trending right now.

But I guess, in the end we will simply choose things that we like even our friends will raise their eyebrows or scoffs whenever they heard us talk about it...

Goose bump!

I may have big body but actually I have only little guts…hahahaha (embarrassed mode is on) .

It was so easy to spook me actually… If you happen to be in the same room with me at night, just drop something and pretend you have no knowledge about it… I would definitely start to get scare and my imagination will running wild…

My very first encounter with the so-called ghost and yes, I think it was a ghost and not just my imagination…was around the year 2001 or 2002. My room has connecting door with my Mom’s room. She was on her trip to her family in another city. So, there were only me, my Dad and my aunt. All slept in separate rooms. I was unable to sleep that night so I decided to turn on the computer and start browsing the internet. It was around approximately 03.30 AM or something. After a while I started to hear a sound from my Mom’s room. At first I did not pay much attention, then the voice suddenly getting a bit louder… I still try to be positive, thinking that it might be my aunt singing (why in the heck she sing about anything at -3.30 AM?)

But after a few minutes the singing turns into almost a crying as if the woman was in pain or in deep sadness. All I know I got a goose bump and decided to turn off my pc. Then I knocked my aunt’s room and asked her to sleep together with me! Huahahaha… Ridiculous, yeah I know…

This is one of so many reasons I decided I should stop watching horror movie. I do not wish that someday…me alone in my apartment (as if I could ever afford to get one) and start imagining that there is a woman in white with long hair and red eyes watching every move that I make…

Yikes!!! I am scare already!!!

Live your life to the fullest

You know seeing my parents in their old days starting to have sickness like diabetes, high cholesterol, problem with eyes sight and I sort of wishing that I won't have to reach old age... I mean, my parents have me to take care of them a bit. But what about me? I have nobody to take care of me in the future... I do not think sick and dying alone is a pleasant thing to think about...

Then, yesterday when I went with my mother to Jakarta Eye Centre we met this elderly. She is about 70 years old and suffered glaucoma. That is why she said she has to give up driving, probably about a month ago. And I was! I watched her in awe because she was still driving even at the age of 70? And come to think of it, she has some kind of energy coming out of her body. She look so alive and no sign that she is sick or tired or anything that indicate she is an elderly. I even heard that a few month ago she still go with a group of tourist to Vatican. She drove those tourists with minibus...

Wish I could be like that IF I ever reach her age... I suppose being old or in any age, we should have that kind of spirit so we can live our life to the fullest.

And please stop grumbling and being desperate about anything as it will only be a waste of our time...