chit chat

After I read a blog of my online friend, I remember this conversation between me and my friends when we were still in high school...

We were talking about a friend of ours who just broke up with her boyfriend because she found out her no good bf of her was cheating with her own friend.

So the topic was...whose fault is that?

Several of us totally blame it all to the boyfriend. Why did he cheat on her anyway? If the relationship was suck why not just break up first then find someone else... (well, we were teens...okay? It wasn't that relationship going to end up in a marriage)... The other totally blame it on the other girl... Really has no shame dating her own friend's boyfriend...knowing that they were still in a steady relationship... The rest blame it on the first girl...thinking she must have said something that hurt her boyfriend or she was not giving enough care (what is he? a baby?) so obviously the boyfriend seek other for comfort...

Thinking all of those conversation...., I now think...perhaps it was everybody's fault...or perhaps it was not...

I mean, seriously? We were teens... We could see only nothing but the face of someone that we love... Then, naturally being not mature enough...we were still looking around for someone that attractive...

In the adult world..., we can not believe everything that we have seen... We have no idea why the guy or the girl having double relationship at once... Why the girl keep on going with sour relationship, why the guy keep the girl but also have another fling with other woman (or perhaps man?)...

So, to find whose fault is that...probably just a waste of time... And would not solve anything anyway... Only those people involved in that unhealthy relationship know what is really going on and what action to take... :)

Ehm, what was I wanna talk about exactly????
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