Grumpy me

I think I have turn into this one annoying grumpily person...

Why's that? Because I started to notice things that I usually never even bother before...and feel irritated by it... I mean if I have a good loving life, I should not be bothered with something so meaningless like that, right?

Like when we shake hand to other people. I always wondered why while people shake hand to each other, they did not do this eyes contact. Instead, both parties have they both eyes darting to many directions. They mouth mumbling greetings but it sounds so meaningless. I noticed that all the time lately.

Being over sensitive, I used to think that people do that only to me. They feel only to do the lip service or whatever, so they shake hands with me but they do not care at all. Their eyes quickly moved from me to another side of the world.

Is not need me a long time, to discover that most people are like that. And sometimes even teller or customer service while I was in the bank... (no names, mind you...) Darting eyes from them sort of a silent signal for me to get lose, move it, I have to deal with another customer...!

Or, they shake your hand but only small touch. As if, your hand have measles or something contagious that have no cure.

I feel, that if you do not have eyes contact while you shaking hand, or just do that little touching hand to hand...it means you are not sincere. And therefore for heaven sakes, why are you wasting my time by false shakes hands?

See how grumpy I become ? :D

5 Responses
  1. Anonymous Says:

    keramahan di tempat usaha sekarang banyak yang udah kayak robot ya, dikejar target dan waktu kali ya.. -- mpokb


  2. dian anggraini Says:

    agree... cuma formalitas ajah tuh kalo salaman..... gw ajah suka jadi salah tingkah sendiri kalo ada acara salam2xan euyyy....


  3. o Says:

    ayooo the power of universe.. get them all to support your positive mind! :)


  4. Anonymous Says:

    betul banget ri, gak cuma loe kok yang grumpy kalo masalah ini.....gak menghargai banget salaman tp gak ngeliat....makanya anak gw selalu gw ajarin kalo salaman lihat orangnya. gw kdg nilai org dari cara dia salaman.....bisa banget tuh dijadiin patokan......(nita)


  5. bridge Says:

    @Bina Ga cuma di tempat usaha.... tapi dalam pertemuan di gereja atau lingkungan keluarga gitu juga

    @Dian sama dong kita kalau gitu...

    @O .... yesssssssss

    @Sera Nita betul juga... iya gue juga suka perhati'in ...kalau ini orang berkali2 emang cara salamannya seperti itu, berarti gue juga gak wajib utk bersopan2 sama dia... :D


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