Sexual harassment

Recently there have been many reports on sexual harassment on the bus… But the reality told us that these kind indecent acts towards women have been happening for ages…

I have that kind of experience when I was still sitting in the university. That day I went home using the usual bus… And like always, the bus was full with people … I was lucky enough to get a seat second from the window… So, I have to put up with people standing beside me …if they swing their bag pass my face or worst has bad odor... Only for that particular day, people with bad odor would be the least of my concern…

When I was busy with my thoughts while sitting on that seat, I felt something funny rubbing my shoulder… At first I did not think of anything because…heck…the bus was crowded with so many people… Why should I even think this person try to rub his MR P to my shoulder for pure fun of his sick mind? For minutes ahead I tried not to think about anything bad though I started to feel annoyed… I was not sure what to do… Should I scream at this guy? But what if he denied everything? Worst he then mocked me back saying that I was the one who has dirty mind? Since I started to feel irritated I decided to block this pervert guy. I put my backpack beside me so his MR P could not be rubbed to my shoulder or my upper arm. He seems get the idea that I know about his unbelievable behavior and move to somewhere else. Probably to his next victim, I have no idea until a girl beside me who sit near the window excuse herself to get ready get off from the bus and another girl sit beside me. I was moving to the seat near the window when that girl asked me whether a guy try to rub his MR P to me… I said yes and asked her how did she know?

“He tried to do the same with me….,” her face full with frustration… “I wish I could kick him but what was my proof?”


What I really hates about this sexual harassment that women are the victim but again they are the one who got blamed. Many people (including women themselves!) saying that would not happen if we wear something decent and not provoke other people to do bad things to us.

Please, that is so lame excuse! I have been asking around, these pervert people do their act on anybody… I once heard their jerking around in front of pregnant woman, they pinched body part of women wearing Jilbab (Islamic clothes for women covering their hair, ears and reveal face only)… Honestly, were these women wearing something sexy or provoke others to harass them? I do not think so.

These people are simply sick in mind and thinking they can get away with it… I once read in the newspaper, one of the perpetrators was asked why did he do that? And you know what? His answered really makes me feel sorry for his mother…to have a son like that… He said he just doing that for fun and have no serious purpose…

I am so glad that authorities starting to take this thing seriously and the perpetrator will have to face sentence in the name of Indonesian Law…

Take that you sick perverted people! This is the time when you can no longer said that it is women’s fault by wearing sexy clothes to provoke your behavior!!!
11 Responses
  1. Anonymous Says:

    Hehehe jd ingat jaman kuliah dulu, pernah ngalamin hal yg sama. Nyokap dulu slalu ngingetin bawa peniti, jd kalo ada yg aneh2 tusuk aja....pelakunya jg pasti gak brani nuduh kan n pastinya bikin dia kaget n kesakitan.....jurus ampuh nyokap gw tuh....(Sera-nita)


  2. bridge Says:

    huh...hebat...si Nyokap.... !!! Iya, emang plg seru sih bikin kayak gitu.... Masalahnya mrk anggap itu wajar sih.... bisa2nya kita yg disalahin memprovokasi mereka berbuat aneh demikian!


  3. hmm...setuju dg komentator di atas, bawa peniti aja. emang kurang ajar ya tuh orang yg rada sakit. kalo aku dulu, pernah ngeliat dia melecehkan dg cara menyentuhkan itunya ke pantat cewek yg berdiri di depannya. bener2 edan tuh orang. duuh...


  4. dian tamin Says:

    Waktu SMP pernah pulang awal kemudian jalan kaki bersama teman2... cewek semua...
    Sampai ditempat yg sepi tiba2 ada mobil berhenti, turun seorang laki2..., tiba2 dia mengeluarkan Mr.P-nya... Seketika kami lari tunggang langgang dan mengambil batu, kami lempari mobilnya...


  5. bridge Says:

    @Sang Cerpenis
    emang. Yg mengesalkan tuh, mereka yg punya kelainan tapi pake menyalahkan orang lain .....

    @Dian
    Huahaha.... pasti dia kaget banget pas ditimpukin batu.... Plaing tidak sekarang wanita jauh lebih aware sama hak2nya dan gak merasa itu salah mereka smp di hampiri org sarap seperti itu


  6. ge siahaya Says:

    emang, orang2 sakit jiwa itu semua. Sayangnya kita memang suka takut juga untuk bersuara, karena seringkali malah disalahin pula ya? Padahal cara paling jitu justru org2 begitu patut dipermalukan, supaya ketahuan siapa dan apa yang dilakukan. Untuuung sudah ada yang ketangkap ya, semoga bikin jera mereka2 yg "sakit" itu, bayangin kalo banyak yg ketangkap, brarti banyak banget yg pervert doooong, hahahaahhaaa.. Jijaaayyyy!!


  7. bridge Says:

    Jijay abessss... Temen gue tuh menceritakan soal pengalaman jijay-nya di bus.... terjadi berulang kali ... Lain modus operandi lain waktu, lain pelaku....tapi semuanya bikin dia bete.... Dan dia saksi hidup tuh, si pelaku mengganggu siapa aja....mau wanita dgn jilbab hingga ibu2 yg lagi hamil.... Sampai ibu2 itu minta tolong sama temen gue supaya turun bareng....supaya anak dalam kandungannya gak ketepa sial sama tu orang


  8. his is the time when you can no longer said that it is women’s fault by wearing sexy clothes to provoke your behavior!!!

    Saya sedih soal pelecehan seksual yang pernah terjadi selalu saja perempuan yang jadi korban itu disalahkan.


  9. bridge Says:

    memang.... tapi sekarang kita sudah tahu itu hanya alasan mereka doang buat menutupi kelakuan bejatnya


  10. Kalo sembulan payudara atau secara umum daya pesona perempuan itu dianggap berpotensi menimbulkam tidak pelecehan, ya sudah, dengan logika sama kita berteriak "PARA LELAKI DILARANG KELUAR MEMBAWA PENIS LANTARAN PENIS ANDA ITU DAPAT MENIMBULKAN POTENSI PENGGUNAAN TIDAK PADA TEMPATNYA!"


  11. bridge Says:

    can we really do that? I would love to :)


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