Love is blind...

Love is blind, hate is awareness...

You know, when you close to someone...as a friend or as a lover...you will find absolutely no flaw on that person... I think I should add being deaf as well when we are close to someone special.

Many people might say, oh be careful woith that person... You will be surprised to know that the person is not really you think he/she is... Or, he snore, she shops like crazy, she or he hate children, he does not get along with your friends let alone your family... But, knowing that he or she is nice, devoted, caring for you... Ah, well... Other people will not understand... Or...is it?

I remember someone that I knew once in the past refuse me to go with her to her house. I thought that she probably has a messy room (like mine) and therefore does not want her friend to witness it... But, later after realizing her true personality, thinking back I realized the real reason why she did not want me to go to her house. Her house is just plain and simple and ordinary. Nothing wrong with that. But totally different with her life style... She always telling us a story that she went to the coolest places, knows important people, hanging around with the haves... Looking at her life style, you would think she live in a mansion or something... But, I did like hang around with her at that time so nohing negative cross my mind...

After we are not having a close relationship with certain person, all the things they have done or said...suddenly we are aware that all those things were actually real negative facts from them. We were like," Oh...now I know why she said that... Or why he did that... What a cocky person..." And the realization could go on forever...

When we like people, all we have is this positive energy that will not allow us to think something negative about them... But once we hate them, our senses are being opened and we realize the real truth from that person... And therefore we are surrounded with negativity... And even that person once bring happiness in our life, we will never be able to see it ever again...
1 Response
  1. o Says:

    that's why we're not supposed to tell friends about someone else that the friends didn't meet yet. it's nonsense to judge others using our own judgement and spread the judgement to our friends..

    good that you still hang around with people that have been credited as bad by others who don't have any right to make bad credits (only god can).


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