Pay attention to yourself first

I know this person who always giving us advice and try to steer us doing things according his/her way.

What I want to laugh about this person do things differently with his/her words.

You know, I think we should pay attention to our own actions before trying to give advices to somebody else, or criticizing about other people's behavior. If you can't control yourself to avoid doing bad things then why in the heck you feel the need to control somebody's else life?

Furthermore, if you can not handle a critic or accepting the ugly truth about yourself then do not try to do that to other people. Because other people who know the real you would just laugh out loud hearing what you said.

If you want to lead a fake life don't drag other people with you...

Take a look at yourself in the mirror and asked yourself...have I been good or not?

Misunderstanding

Okay, I know you are going to laugh at me but I confessed... I just watched The Social Network... Hahaha... So left far behind...

Anyway, yeah the reason I finally watched the movie as I read the movie has received many nominations and awards so obviously I was a bit curious. And after watched the movie I have to admit that yeah I like the story and all the casts. No, no, no...not because all of them are so damn hot but simply because they make it look so real... As if we are watching what truly happened between Mark and Eduardo and the twins that sued him believing that Mark stole their idea.

Well, I am not going to discuss about how the movie has entertained me and other audiences...but something that I saw from it kinda remind me about how sometimes money and misunderstanding able to ruin a friendship.

Recently a friend of mine told me to just be straight forward with whatever on my mind. Don't hold back and just let it out. Like a friend said something that hurt you... Rather than just keep it inside, better you just said that you don't like what she said... Well, probably in the nicest way you can muster. Or you should be able to accept the fact that you have been hurtful to your dear friend when they told you about it. Because if we decided not to speak about it for the sake of friendship... Well, that friendship is walking on a thin line and somewhere in the future it will break without any chance for amends.

Victim of MAGNUM

One of my online friend posted this on her blog and I think she is not the only one.

When the first advertisement of Magnum ice cream launched on television, it does not automatically attract me. I mean, is not a new product from WALLS and therefore I find it amusing to see them advertise the product again on television.

But when a close friend of mine who is not really into ice cream said to me that the new Magnum is more delicious than before, it ignite my curiosity. And since that on I have been lurking and stalking every stores to get it.

Unfortunately (or perhaps fortunately for my diet) the advertisement went on so well, now almost everybody feels the need to get their hands on Magnum. It said that the ice cream inside coated with Belgium Chocolate. So you can imagine how drooling that must be for me, the chocolate lover. But, I seldomly manage to get at least one at the mini market or super market as they always run out! Unbelievable!

Sometimes when I got lucky, I just walk in to any stores and there, they have stocks of Magnum ice cream. But if not, I could only picture it on my mind and wondering when I am going to get it...

And I said I want to go on diet starting this January... CRAP! I HATE (LOVE) YOU, MAGNUM!

1.11.11

Wow today is an interesting date combination ^__^

What should I write… Hmmm…

A few days ago a friend of mine told me about his relatives who was found dead after 3 days in his apartment. Apparently he lives alone, unmarried and does not have regular maid who comes daily. Otherwise, he would soon be discovered sooner after passing away. Kinda sad to think that people just wasted away like that, alone with nobody to be with…

Seems that is the kind of future I will have…

And to drown myself to that sad feeling I started to re-watched BRIDGET JONES Diary… Hahaha, Renée Zellweger totally funny and Colin Firth look so much younger! I love the couples…
Anyway, I think ever since that movie the song : ALL BY MYSELF sort of becoming the theme songs for singletons.



Though it was funny to see how the Bridget Jones character singing along the song, let out her sadness about being alone and nobody to be with…I feel a bit sad listening to that song. And it is a song I am totally avoid whenever depression come over me. Especially listening to people who keep on saying, you have to have kids to take care of you in the future… What? Seriously? That’s a silly reason to have children… They never expected to be born into this world…so I suppose I can not be selfish and demand them to take care of me in the future…

But anyway, here I am all alone in this world… I just hope I will be able to pass day by day happily though probably not ever after… And may God bless me always for whatever I do in this life…

So I do not have to sing this in the future…
ALL BY MYSELF….DON’T WANNA BE… ALL BY MYSELF… ANYMORE…


Spoilled

I guess I will never know how to treat my future-don't-know-when my children to be...

The reason why I wrote about this when I saw how my acquaintance cousin spoills her children.

Her youngest children currently is having a bad flue... Few days ago before her flue got worst, someone told her to give her daughter something to cure the sickness. Even suggested traditional medicine.

But, she did not do that as her daughter keep stalling because she said to me she hates medicine. Everytime she was given medicine she would throw up and therefore out of love, her parents did not want to force her to eat or drink anything that she did not like.

Hmmmm

Even though by not drinking that yucky taste medicine means we are going to get our health back?

I know her parents believe that our body could heal ourselves when we got sick but I think after few days of not getting better...should the parents try anything to cure her daughter?

So all these times, they just follow whatever their daughter wants even it is going to be bad for her?

When we need to push them even if they do not like what we have asked them to do and when we are going to just give in if they refuse what we want them to do?

Who said it is easy to be a parents?

New year resolution...again...

What is the most people loves to do when the new year come?

Making another resolution :D

I think we just love having something new in our life... Just like me whenever I have new diary or empty book, i feel there are so much I am going to write there... New ideas emerging from my mind can not wait to be written in those new white empty pages... But wait when we have finally reached half of the diary... suddenly we lost interest and forgot all the things that we have promised in the early year...

Now..., again... I am trying to write...really write them (you know using pen or pencil) on a diary about things that I want to do for the whole year. Like finishing this 50,000 words project with Kampung Fiksi group at Facebook and try to send at least one article to any magazines... Let us see and hope I can make it through until the end of year 2011

So, let us open new chapter in our life in the year 2011... Don't give up hope when we finally reach the middle of our diary... Keep on doing what we have planned and may all our plan can be done...

Happy New Year 2011

Hi all...

Wishing you all the best for this new year and after trying desperately to write daily in the year 2010...now I think it is time for me to reduce it to...whenever I feel like it...

I am trying to write more on articles and also getting involved with crazy people (sorry friends) to write as much as 50,000 words within a month... I love it... At least something drive me to keep on and on writing until there is nothing more to write...

Wish me luck... Hopefully I could produce another interesting story ^_^